My top three favorite quotes for parenting





Type of parenting best avoided :)


With 23 years of parenting down and a few more to go...here are my favorites that I try to remember along the way....


1."IT'S NOT SO IMPORTANT "what" YOUR CHILDREN ARE DOING BUT "why".


2. "WRONG CHOICES OFTEN BRING IMMEDIATE GOOD RESULTS, RIGHT CHOICES OFTEN HAVE IMMEDIATE BAD (OR HARD) RESULTS." -Jousha McDowell


3.  WHEN A CHILD'S PARENTS ENTER A ROOM, THAT CHILD IS UNCONSCIOUSLY ASKING HERSELF, 'DO MY MOM AND DAD'S EYES LIGHT UP WHEN THEY SEE ME?  DO THEY THINK I MATTER?'" -Toni Morrison


Do you have a favorite "parenting" quote that you like?!


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